Koreans talking about death easily?
๐ฑ ์ค์ ๋ก ํ๊ตญ ์ฌ๋๋ค์ ์๋๋ฐฉ์๊ฒ '์ฃฝ๊ณ ์ถ์ด? ํน์ '์ฃฝ์ผ๊ฑฐ์ผ' ๋ผ๋ ๋ง์ ์์ฃผ ์ฌ์ฉํ ๊น? Do Koreans really ask someone so often do you want to die or I'll kill you?
๐ฐ๐ท ๊ฑฐ์ ๋๋ค์์ ํ๊ตญ ์ฌ๋๋ค์ ๋ค๋ฅธ ์ฌ๋์๊ฒ ํ ๋ฒ์ฏค์ ์ฃฝ๊ณ ์ถ๋? ํน์ ๋ค์ง๋ค? ํน์ ๋ค์ง๋? ๋ฑ๋ฑ์ ๋ง์ ๊ฑด๋ค๋ณธ ๊ฒฝํ์ด ์์ ๊ฒ์ด๋ค. ๋ ๋ํ ๋ง์ฐฌ๊ฐ์ง ๋ค๋ฅธ ์ด์๊ฒ ๊ทธ๋ ๊ฒ ๋งํด๋ณธ ๊ฒฝํ์ด ์๋ค. ์ด ๋ง์ ํฌ๊ฒ ๋ ๊ฐ์ง ์ํฉ๊ณผ ๋ถ์๊ธฐ์ ๋ฐ๋ผ ์ฌ์ฉํ ์ ์๋ค.
์๋ฅผ ๋ค์ด A ์ B ๊ฐ ์น๊ทผํ๊ณ ํ๋ชฉํ ๊ด๊ณ๋ฅผ ์ ์งํ๋ ์ฌ์ด๋ผ๋ฉด A๊ฐ B์๊ฒ ๊ทธ๋ฌํ ๋ง์ ํ๋ , B๊ฐ A์๊ฒ ๊ทธ๋ฌํ ๋ง์ ํ๋ ์๋ก๊ฐ ๊ธฐ๋ถ ๋๋น ํ์ง ์๊ณ ์ฌ๊ฐํ๊ฒ ๋ฐ์๋ค์ด์ง ์์ ํ๋ฅ ์ด ๋๋ค. ๊ทธ๋์ ์์ฃผ ๊ฐ๊น์ด ์น๊ตฌ ์ฌ์ด๋ก ์ง๋ด๋ ์ฌ๋๋ค์ ์ด ๋ง์ ๋๋ด์ฒ๋ผ ์๋ก์๋ก ์ฃผ๊ณ ๋ฐ๋๋ค. ์๊ธฐ๊ฒ ๋ค๋ฆด์ง ๋ชจ๋ฅด์ง๋ง ์ฐ์ธ ์ฌ์ด์ ์ด ๋ง์ ์ฌ์ฉํ๋ฉด ๋์ฑ ๋์ ํ ๊ด๊ณ๋ก ๋ฐ์ ๋๊ธฐ๋ ํ๋ค.
ํ์ง๋ง ๋ง์ฝ A๊ฐ ํ๋ ํ์ ์ ์ง๊ณ ๊ฒฉ์๋ ๋ชฉ์๋ฆฌ๋ก B ์๊ฒ ์ด ๋ง์ ํ๋ฉด B๋ A๋ฅผ ์ํํ ์ฌ๋์ผ๋ก ์ธ์ํ๊ฒ ๋ ๊ฒ์ด๋ค. ๋ง์ฝ ์๋ก์ ๊ด๊ณ๊ฐ ์ข์๋๋ผ๋ฉด ๋ฉ์ด์ง๋ ๊ณ๊ธฐ๊ฐ ๋๊ฑฐ๋ ๋จ์ํ ํดํ๋์ผ๋ก ๋๋ ์ ์๊ฒ ์ง๋ง, ์๋ก๊ฐ ์น๋ถ์ด ์๊ฑฐ๋ ์ ๋ชจ๋ฅด๋ ์ฌ์ด๋ผ๋ฉด ์ด ๋ง์ ๋ฃ๋ ์ฌ๋์ ์ด ๋ง์ ํ ์ฌ๋์ ๊ฒฝ์ฐฐ์ ๊ณ ๋ฐํ๊ฑฐ๋ ๊ณ ์ํ๊ฒ ๋ ๊ฒ์ด๋ค.
๋น์ ์ด ํ๊ตญ์ ์จ ์ธ๊ตญ์ธ ์ด๋ผ๋ฉด ๊ฐ๊ธ์ ์ด ๋ง์ ์ข๊ฒ๋ ๋์๊ฒ๋ ์ฌ์ฉํ์ง ์๋๊ฒ์ด ์ข๋ค.
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๐บ๐ธ Most Koreans will have experience saying this to other people, You wanna die? or I'll kill you etc. It is used in two situation and in different moods.
For example, if A and B are friendly and have a good relationship, there is a high probability that they will not be offended by each other and will not take it seriously whether A says that to B or B says that to A. So, people who are very close friends exchange these words with each other like a joke. It may sound funny, but if you use this word between lovers, it can even develop into a more sticky relationship.But when people who don't know each other use these words, the consequences are horrendous. Even if they are close friends, it is often the case that the relationship ends when one person speaks with an angry expression and a furious voice.
If you are a foreigner who doesn't know the difference between using this word for good and for using it badly, please don't use it with your Korean friends in Korea. This word is like a double-edged sword.
The first image is a scene from the Korean movie 'The Uncle'. I've never heard a grown man actually say that to a little girl. The second Korean film depicts the friendship of Korean high school friends.
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